The Havens at Antelope Valley

My brother-in-law lived at Havens at Antelope Valley for two years, and our family couldn’t be more grateful for the love and care he experienced there. Even though it’s an independent living community, the staff was always there when he needed them—kind, attentive, gentle, and genuinely caring in a way that felt like family. He valued his independence, and The Havens gave him the perfect balance of freedom and peace of mind. He had his own space, kept his routines, and enjoyed the social activities on his own terms—but what stood out most is how respectful and responsive the staff was. They made him feel part of a warm community without ever making him feel like he was being watched over too closely. In his final 72 hours, when he was placed on hospice, the staff showed a level of compassion and dignity that we will never forget. They cared for him with such gentleness, respect, and sincerity that it brought us peace during an incredibly difficult time. Their presence and support ensured he was not only comfortable but surrounded by genuine kindness at the end of his life. We are deeply thankful for everything they did for him. The Havens is truly a special community.

My 98-yr old Mom has been a resident of the Havens since Sept 24. She first lived in a beautiful apartment in the Assisted Living, which she loved, and then after a few months moved to the Memory Care due to worsening dementia. Dementia is an awful, constantly changing and progressive disease, and I cannot express my gratitude for the care she has received in the Havens memory care over the last year. The most important factor for me is the incredible kindness, patience, and love that is shown by the staff to her everyday, especially the wonderful caregivers and nurses. I spend a lot of time visiting several times per week, and see firsthand how the staff operates. Last week, I was resting in her room while she slept, and they didn't know I was there. A caregiver came in every 15 minutes or so just to check on her. They often stroke her hair, tell her they love her, help her get dressed pretty, the kinds of personal touch and attention that dementia patients crave and would probably not get at other facilities. ALL the caregivers they hire here are very dedicated, some with years of experience and some young but very wise beyond their years. They are obviously very knowledgeable about dementia care and have helped me a lot by talking to them and observing how they handle situations. I would like to mention all the names but am afraid I would forget someone. The nurses are also very proactive and check in on the patients several times per day, and the med techs help me keep track of medication side effects and information I need to work with her primary care doctor. They have also arranged some outside care agencies to help with some of the medical and skilled nursing tasks. Of course there are always minor communications or other issues that come up, but the staff are always willing to work with you and fix things quickly. Some families rarely visit, I know it is difficult with these types of patients. However, I have found it rewarding to hang out there for meals and activities, and am growing quite fond of this little group and even more in awe of how hard the caregivers have to work (think nursery school/"herding cats"/"it's always something"). The caregivers have what we pilots call "good situational awareness" for all the things going on that require their attention. For some of the google commenters, I would say that unfortunately, Assisted Living is not the right arrangement for someone with dementia. They need to be in memory care where the facility is set up to provide the security and level of care that they need. The staff also take the Memory Care residents (that are able) to the music and holiday activities over in the main Assisted Living area, and the activity leaders have almost constant activities such as crafts, word games, singing, etc. designed for memory patients. My Mom enjoyed many of these in her first months, but is no longer able to take part as much, but the higher-functioning residents really enjoy the activities and the frequent musical guests. I highly recommend the Havens memory care for the expert and compassionate care they provide!

If you're looking for a place for a loved one, this is the place. Every time I visit here is a wonderful experience. The facility are always clean and welcoming. It's usually decorated for seasons and holidays. There seems to be a lot of daily activities. The staff is friendly and professional and the residents all plays always look happy.

I have been very happy with The Haven. We are treated kindly by the entire staff and with respect as well. I would recommend this "Home away from home" to all my friends and family.