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Which Type of Caregiver Are You?

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As a family caregiver, you’re part of a large group of folks taking care of an elderly parent or older spouse. In fact, nearly 40 million of you are providing unpaid care to an adult age 50 or older.

Who Are the Family Caregivers?

  • 60% Women
  • 40% Men
  • 9% LGBTQ

The average age of a family caregiver is 49 — but nearly 10% are seniors themselves. Caregivers over the age of 75 are most likely taking care of a spouse or partner. Caregivers spend an average of 24.4 hours a week providing care, but 23% spend more than 41 hours per week caregiving.

family caregivers of adults

 

The Working Daughter
The average caregiver overall is a 49-year-old woman who works outside the home and provides 20 hours per week of unpaid care to her mother. But like many in the sandwich generation, these working daughters support others as well:

  • 26% are also parents of a minor
  • More than 50% financially support an adult child
  • 16% regularly take care of a grandchild

Working Daughter

The Caring Man
The number of men becoming primary caregivers is rising. In the U.S., 40% of caregivers are men, while in the U.K. that number is 42%. The average age for a son caring for a parent or in-law is 46.4 years old. Men caring for spouse/partner are typically 62.5 years old. Male family caregivers help with an average of 1.7 activities of daily living (ADLs), as well as help manage finances, shopping, cooking and/or transportation.

  • 56% married
  • 26% single, never married
  • 11% gay, bisexual or transgender

The Caring Man

Spousal/Partner Caregivers

One in 10 family caregivers provide care for a spouse or partner, and the average caregiver age is 62. The typical caregiver over the age of 75 is a 79-year-old white, unemployed woman providing care to a 77-year-old male spouse or partner with Alzheimer’s, heart disease or age issues.

The Long-Distance Caregiver

Most family caregivers live within 20 minutes of their loved one. But not everyone falls in that category. About 15% of all caregivers (5-7 million) are providing care from much farther away. The average distance? 450 miles. It’s slightly more common for men to be long-distance caregivers (58%).

The Long Distance Caregiver

Hopefully this information will be more than just some interesting statistics for you. Know that while it may sometimes feel like you’re doing this by yourself, there are millions of people who understand what your journey is like – and that you’re not alone.

See the full Caregiver Infographic here or take our caregiver burnout quiz.

Sources:
Caregiving in the U.S. 2015
Family Caregiver Alliance
Daughters in the Workplace Survey, 2017
Source: Breaking Stereotypes: Spotlight on Male Family Caregivers, March 2017
National Council on Aging
National Alliance for Caregiving/MetLife Mature Market Institute

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